I am 24 years old and I am a young European-Senegalese woman. I describe myself as beautiful, loving, ambitious, relaxed and trustworthy. I have a great job as an event manager. When it comes to relationships, I am reliable, I take good care of my man. I can be described as the ‘good girl’.
I am dating this guy for more than 8 months now. He is lovely, funny, he gives me attention and we get along great. But yet, he is scared. He admits that he does not know how to handle his feelings for me, because he does not easily get feelings for a woman. But he still wants me to be his lady. As a result of his fear, he sometimes accuses me of messing about with other men. He gets quite suspicious whenever my phone goes off. This ruins any good time that I share with him. It seems as if he is putting me to a test to make sure I am that reliable woman. This has gotten to the point whereby I so get irritated. I am tired of constantly having to defend myself of things where I know nothing about. I am a good woman, I am not romantically involved with anyone but him. He should be glad with someone like me.
I am so tired of it. The reason why I am tired is because I don’t know how to handle this. I don’t know if this is a test. I am thinking of putting an end to our relationship. But yet, we have something good going on. The positive of our relationship is more than the negative. But this negativity is just getting on my nerves and it is ruining good times.